The Best Hookup Sites to Get Laid [ 2020 ]

BeNaughty.com is a community of people looking for a quick hook up. The site is open to couples as well. On BeNaughty you can swipe through listings and like them if its an offer you’re into or skip if it’s not. Because BeNaughty allows couples on their site this place facilitates threesomes as well. If you’re looking for a quick hookup as a couple or on your own this community could be one that speaks to you. The BeNaughty community expects you are there for something casual so you don’t have to beat around the bush in asking for what you want.

Profiles are easy to set up. Just include your photo. BeNaughty does require a photo to help combat fake profiles.

Pros:

• A community of like-minded people
• Sending messages is free for women
• Photos and verification helps keep profiles legit

Cons:

• Profiles are available for anyone to see for free
• You do need one photo at least
• Fee for advanced features

Not all these apps and sites can be a hit. Snapsext seems to be one that is a miss. While it does do everything you would want in a hookup app there doesn’t appear to be too many people using it. While SnapSext might not be great  for real-life hookups it does have some other redeeming qualities. There are features for webcam girls and dirty messaging sites.

SnapSext as the name sounds seems to be more of an exchange of sexy nude photos.

Pros:

• You can see who is online
• Allows video chat
• Operates as a dating site

Cons:

• Membership is pricey at $40 per month
• Less of a dating site and more of a photo exchange
• Paid interactions with girls on the site

AdultFriendFinder or AFF is one of the largest players in the adult dating space. AFF has one of the largest communities of adults looking to find hookups. One thing to note about AFF is that you have to pay to use the site. At just under $26 for a membership, AFF is definitely not the cheapest option when it comes to finding a date. The high price tag might be worth it as it is the place where a lot of people find hookups.

Pros:

• Local hookups all around you
• Decent looking women
• Mobile app

Cons:

• Spam pop-ups
• Have to pay to use the site

Ashley Madison has been the grandfather of hook up apps since its inception. In a time when online dating was still considered taboo Ashley Madison was quick to take it a step further. Creating a site designed for cheating and for hooking up Ashley Madison pioneered the way for hookup apps to come. The amazing thing about Ashley Madison is that it still managed to stay relevant after overcoming a huge scandal. At one point a ton of user data was breached and many men and their mistresses started running for cover. The site was able to overcome the scandal and come out of it stronger than ever. All press is good press, right? Today Ashley Madison is still one of the best places to go to score a hookup.

Profiles are free and easy to set up. Fill out as much or as little as your profile as you want. Bear in mind that if you want people to take you seriously you should fill out a pretty robust profile. You have the option to add a variety of photos as well though a lot of members don’t for privacy reasons

Pros:

• Beefed up security and privacy since the data breach
• Free to sign up
• Users can find a variety of things: hookups, mistresses, sugar babies etc.

Cons:

• Ashley Madison has been breached before and could be again.
• You have to pay to gift people on the site
• Profiles are not super detailed

Fling.com is one of the largest sites for casual hookups. Boasting over 50 million users across the world this international hook up site is a no-frills place to find sex.  Fling.com allows users to upload explicit photos so you can enjoy some nudes before your casual hook up. Fling.com is not only for casual sex hookups the site also puts you in touch with camgirls and flirty messaging apps.

You will need to pay to see photos on people’s profiles. Your premium account also gives you messaging access. The signup process is pretty simple, just put in your name, gender, location, and an email address and you are good to go.

Pros:

• Explicit nude photos
• Large userbase
• There is a chatroom you can use to chat with others.

Cons:

• No free trial options
• No free messaging or viewing profiles
• You have to pay for premium options

As the name suggests, Down, is an app for just that, getting down to business. The Down app is super simple to use. The whole mission of down is to foster a sex-positive environment. Dating is tough on our emotions and investing a whole lot of time to get to know people is exhausting. Down makes casual sex the only priority on their app. Down gives you the option to “get date” or “get down”. This feature is cool because lets be honest some people we only want to fuck while others we want a little more with.

Pros:

• The is an app
• You can choose to date or to just hook up
• Privacy is important

Cons:

• No website feature
• A newer app that might not have a ton of users yet

There are not the best reviews of FuckBook. A lot of people reported fake profiles and messages. Besides having a lot of users many are not real. Don’t let that get you down though there are a few real profiles as well. There have also been reports that the site gets pretty spammy with a ton of ads. You might want to skip this one.

Pros:

• Easy to use
• Lots of male members

Cons:

• Some fake profiles
• Lots of pop-ups
• Fake messages

When Flirt.com began back in 2009 so the website does have some years under its belt. When it first began women were able to message for free but that does not appear to be the case anymore. Now in order to use Flirt.com men and women alike have to pay for the premium features. In order to make sure it is worth the money, Flirt.com offers users a free 3 days trial. Most people using the site seem to be looking for something casual but there are some people using the site for more serious dating as well.

Pros:

• Community is all looking for a local hookup
• Every photo uploaded has to be approved by the Flirt community
• You can see how far people are around you.

Cons:

• Some fake profiles
• You have to pay for messaging
• Messages expire after 24 hours

Tinder was the app that blew up online dating. From its inception Tinder was at the forefront of dating apps. When Tinder began most of the people were romanticly inclined. As more dating apps came onto the market Tinder has kind of gotten a rap as the hookup app, which is ideal for us. As Tinder gets more and more no strings the people on it seem to be opening up.

The Tinder apps makes signing up and hooking up right from your phone super easy. Simply download the app, upload a simple bio and photo, set some preferences if you’d like to and then get matching.

Pros:

• Free for basic services
• Tons of users
• Simple to use

Cons:

• Some people are there looking for love
• You have to pay for advanced features
• Not a hookup only app

ThirstyDates is a modern dating app. The clean interface from the site is carried through to the app experience. ThirstyDates claims to help facilitate quick, local and discreet hookups. The people using ThirstyDates are looking for a hookup and not much more which is perfect for what we want. ThirstyDates is great because it doesn’t have a lot of gimmicks it has one purpose and that’s it. It’s not for sexy photo sharing or chatting. ThirstyDates is for local hookups and that’s all.

Setting up a profile on ThirstyDates is easy and fast. The geolocation feature makes sure only people in your area are finding you. There is no point in matching up with someone on the other side of the country to find a hookup buddy.

Pros:

• Geolocation service makes local hookups easier
• Like-minded community
• Real profiles

Cons:

• No video chat capabilities
• Newer site so it hasn’t proven itself over the years yet.
• You need a photo to make a profile

SeekingArrangements is a great place to go when looking for a hookup. Tons of real profiles, tons of beautiful women all ready to hook up. What’s the catch? You have to pay for them. That’s right, SeekingArrangements is a site where you meet women with an arrangement in mind. Now while these women don’t come out directly and say they are looking for money most of the women are either escorts or sugar babies.

Seeking is super easy to use and has a ton of real profiles. You really could find someone on SeekingArrangements to hookup with fast and local but you might have to throw some cash their way.

Pros:

• Tons of real profiles
• Local girls all around
• A lot of the girls are down to hook up and really hot

Cons:

• You have to pay for advanced features
• You can pretty much expect to have to give the girl money in some regard